Build Wealth Through Grit, Discipline, Relationships, and Action with Dante Royster
Hosted by Mattias Clymer, a Realtor with Funkhouser Real Estate Group who leads Valley Homes Team in Harrisonburg, Virginia, and Erica Clymer, a licensed therapist and real estate investor.
Dante Royster is a mortgage broker and founder of Epic Mortgage, a relationship-first brokerage licensed across nine states, who has spent over 23 years helping families build wealth through homeownership. He teaches that agents should define a clear investing goal before choosing a strategy, and that consistent daily habits create the opportunities that look like luck.
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- 00:00 - Introduction to Dante Royster and Lessons From Basketball
- 05:00 - Michael Jordan, Work Ethic, and Persevering Through the Market Crash
- 10:00 - Building Confidence Through Self-Education and Commission-Based Work
- 15:00 - Avoiding Analysis Paralysis and Taking Action as an Investor
- 20:00 - Evaluating Deals, Establishing Principles, and Earning Repeat Business
- 25:00 - Consistency, Good Debt, and the Long-Term Power of Homeownership
- 30:00 - The Ultimate Mortgage Guide, Connecting With Dante, and Final Thoughts
- 31:19 - Closing Message and Episode Disclaimer
Dante Royster reveals how discipline, relationships, strategic thinking, and consistent action can help investors build lasting wealth, avoid costly mistakes, and create a more confident path toward financial freedom through thoughtful property ownership decisions today. See article: https://www.unitedstatesrealestateinvestor.com/build-wealth-through-grit-discipline-relationships-and-action-with-dante-royster/ (00:00) - Introduction to Dante Royster and Lessons From Basketball (05:00) - Michael Jordan, Work Ethic, and Persevering Through the Market Crash (10:00) - Building Confidence Through Self-Education and Commission-Based Work (15:00) - Avoiding Analysis Paralysis and Taking Action as an Investor (20:00) - Evaluating Deals, Establishing Principles, and Earning Repeat Business (25:00) - Consistency, Good Debt, and the Long-Term Power of Homeownership (30:00) - The Ultimate Mortgage Guide, Connecting With Dante, and Final Thoughts (31:19) - Closing Message and Episode Disclaimer Contact Dante Royster https://www.theultimatemortgageguide.com/ https://www.epic.mortgage/ https://www.facebook.com/dante.m.royster/ https://www.instagram.com/epicmortgage/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/dante-royster-36b80b5/ https://youtube.com/@danteroyster9830 Dante Royster reminds every investor that lasting wealth is not created through hype, perfect timing, or endless preparation. It is built through discipline, meaningful relationships, clear principles, and the courage to take action. Decide where you want to go, prepare yourself for the opportunity, and start building the future you deserve. For more conversations that inspire financial growth and a more fulfilling life, visit https://reiagent.com Is success destroying your peace? Most pros grind until they break. Download The Investor’s Life Balance Sheet: A Holistic Wealth Audit to see if you are building a legacy or heading for burnout. Presented by The REI Agent Podcast & United States Real Estate Investor® https://sendfox.com/lp/m4jrl
Questions This Episode Answers
- Who is Dante Royster and what does he do?
- Dante Royster is a mortgage broker and the founder of Epic Mortgage, a relationship-first brokerage he started in 2019 that is licensed across nine states. He has closed over 1,500 mortgage transactions in the last decade and is the author of the Ultimate Mortgage Guide.
- What first question does Dante Royster ask an agent who wants to build a real estate portfolio?
- He asks what the agent's goal is and which strategy fits it, such as fix and flip, cash flow, or appreciation. He recommends thinking about the end result first, then working backward to the steps it will take to get there.
- How did Dante Royster move from a salaried role to full commission in real estate?
- Dante Royster started at a company on salary plus commission, which he describes as training wheels that gave him time to self-educate. About five years later he moved to straight commission once he was confident he could deliver.
- What is Dante Royster's view on good debt and bad debt in homeownership?
- Dante Royster defines good debt as anything someone else pays for and bad debt as anything paid out of pocket. He also describes a 30 year fixed mortgage as locking in today's dollar amount while the dollar loses value over time.
- What book does Dante Royster recommend for real estate investors?
- Dante Royster recommends Energy on the Bus, which he calls a short book about teamwork. His takeaway is that investors should build a financial team of people with the same goals and the right energy to help them move in the right direction.
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[0:00] Welcome back to the REI Agent. My guest today is Dante Royster, a top 1% mortgage broker, entrepreneur, author, and podcast host who has spent over 23 years helping families build wealth through home ownership. A former basketball player, Dante brought the same discipline, resilience, and competitive edge to his athletic career into the financial world. He founded Epic Mortgage in 2019, a relationship-first brokerage now licensed across nine states and has closed over 1,500 mortgage transactions in the last decade. He is also the author of the Ultimate Mortgage Guide and the host of the Epic Spotlight podcast. Dante, welcome to the REI Agent podcast. Hey, thanks for having me. You know, one of the things that I have always kind of regretted through like not, I was into basketball as well. You were a basketball player, you know, in elementary school. But then when I got into like middle school, I kind of got more to be in like, it’s like my punk era, if you will.
[1:00] And maybe it was a little too cool for organized sports or whatever it was, or it wasn’t good enough. So I didn’t get, I didn’t get on the team. But I saw the like, kind of like the discipline I feel like people got when they were doing, you know, the organized sports. Also, you know, like the military, I feel like that’s another example of where people can really have life-changing discipline introduced into them. Would you find that true for your life? I mean, what kind of, you know, playing college basketball, what kind of, you know, lessons did you learn from that? No, definitely. Well, I mean, it was started off with my dad. My dad was, you know, in the military. You know, he was an army reserve. So, I mean, I walked, you know, I came out of birth just in disciplinary. Hey, this is what you have to do. You know, here’s, here’s your schedule, here’s your habits. And so it made it easier for me to just embrace sports because it was the same thing. You know, Hey, you have to be here at this time. Okay. If you do something wrong, you got to run, you know, so it made complete sense for me. And, you know, one thing that people sometimes
[2:03] forget about sports is, you know, the team building, you know, not only the discipline, but team building, working with others that may not even look like you, but it doesn’t matter the color of their skin. It’s just a matter of, Hey, he’s on my team. I got to work with them. So, you know, a lot of different ideologies, you know, when you’re in locker rooms, you know, people come from a lot of different places, especially in college, you know, you’re recruited. So, you know, I’m coming from the Chicagoland area, but I’m working with people that are coming off a farm, you know? And so it’s like, Oh, okay. And, and we have to find commonality and work together to get jobs done. Now you mentioned before we got on air here that, uh, that you, you’re not a giant tall person. Um, what was, did that put you at point guard? What, what positions you play?
[2:46] Yes, definitely. I played the point guard. Okay. Okay. What, what kind of, um, overcoming of, you know, that challenge of, you know, like, I don’t know if like, do people overlook you right away when they first saw you or like, I mean, did you feel like you had to like have a chip on your shoulder, if you will, to like, kind of like prove yourself? Um, yeah. I mean, from a, you know, I’m a highly competitive person. I’ve always been competitive, a little feisty at times and, um, you know, definitely being short, it’s one of those things, especially in basketball, you know, as a short guy has to prove he can play where a tall guy has to prove he can’t play. So, you know, I, I, you know, I’m not always going to be the first guy picked if I walk into a gym, but then I got to show what I can do, you know? And so I have to be, you know, that much faster, that much in shape, you know, endurance, all those little things and, and be willing to do the little things to show my way. And I, and I think that carries into business, right? You know, I think that carries into real estate, you got to be a grinder, you know, especially, uh, so that
[3:43] kind of maybe helps us out. You know, when I wake up, you know, I know I got to grind, you know, nothing’s going to be given to me, you know, I got to go out and make it happen. And so that is, you know, talking to people, being uncomfortable, you know, all those things, you know, are commonalities that I see from sports into, you know, real estate. Yeah. Well, I mean, coming from the Chicago area, I’m sure, uh, Michael Jordan has been a influence of yours over the years. Uh, he was a huge one for me for sure. And I think the older I got, you know, when I was a kid, it was just, this guy’s amazing. This is so cool. Uh, the older I got, like learning about, you know, his work ethic and, and how much he, he put into, um, getting to be that good, that dominant, uh, I think speaks volumes.
[4:24] Um, you know, there’s other examples of that. I think, you know, through the years, like having read Arnold Schwarzenegger’s book, you know, just the theory of like putting in what is it? It’s a 10,000 reps. Like, you know, it, you can kind of build in the confidence of yourself that like, if you put in the work, um, you can, you can achieve a lot. Um, and so I think it’s partly, you know, having those role models to kind of guide yourself after, and then also just, uh, not letting yourself be a victim and kind of, you know, in this, in this space, you have to hustle, you have to grind. It’s going to be tough. Um, when you first start, especially, you’re going to have to push through a lot of adversity to try to get to where you want to be.
[5:02] And I think those kinds of role models and having maybe experienced that yourself as well, it’s got to be invaluable. Oh, a hundred percent. You know, it’s one of those things I’m kind of jealous of, uh, people just starting out now because they can use YouTube and, and see all those, you know, conversations and read those books. You know, we were in that moment where it was happening real time, you know, and this is before YouTube and before all the highlights. So we were in awe, I remember, um, you know, my parents had a season tickets with a bunch of other families that kind of, you know, uh, broke them out. And, uh, so we would go to games and I remember being at the old Chicago stadium and Michael Jordan patting me on my head. And I, I just went screaming like, Hey, he’s had me on my head. I mean, and so, you know, we were in awe and didn’t realize just what we were watching, you know what I mean? And now we look back and see the highlights like, man, this guy was incredible. I mean, obviously amazing. And it’s just one of those things where it’s like, I, you know, to the point of, you know, I’m jealous because now I can reflect and,
[6:02] and, and hopefully people are taking the time to read those books and to watch those and get inspired of just how, you know, the 10,000 hours, you know, I didn’t, you know, those weren’t really references used back in the nineties or the early two thousands, but now because of information has gone out. Now we know what it takes really to be successful. A hundred percent. Well, when you got started, um, you were, you, you got started right before the big recession in real estate. Um, and I, I’m sure that had to add to the, you know, the difficulty of kind of getting the business off the ground. Um, there had to have been mass fear in the market and, uh, you know, especially probably a lot of fingers being pointed at the, the, the loan side of things, right. Um, what was that like? I mean, what, what got you through that time? You know, I think real estate in general is a leap of faith. I think you take a leap of faith and you have to believe. And so you have to have a faith based mindset. And so really, uh, my strength within me, just being, um, confident of who I am and what I’m trying to accomplish, kind of keeping my eyes on the prize. I mean, just, you know, overall,
[7:10] there’s so many different distractions and obviously that was a serious situation going on, but it’s a distraction and you kind of have to focus on, okay, what’s important and you can only control what you can control. So, you know, I, I’m not going to, uh, you know, bail out banks, you know, my bank account is not big enough for that. So, you know, I can only control my work ethic each and every day, talking to folks and some of the people I could not help, right. They were in, uh, you know, adverse situations and, you know, I can say, Hey, I’ll call you back. But I, my mission and my job, especially from a lending perspective is I have to help the people that can’t qualify and want to move forward in that month, you know, and I have to kind of go month to month and grind it out. But, you know, that’s really what kept me going is just kind of my faith base. Um, and, and, you know, and I was fortunate enough to be younger, so I didn’t have as many responsibilities at the time, you know, I didn’t have the family and the kids and all that stuff. So I was very fortunate in that manner too. Yeah, absolutely. I mean that it does make things easier. Uh, the, the, the grind phase
[8:13] can be tough. And when I started, you know, we didn’t have any kids, uh, was, was married. Um, it was a second job to start. Uh, I think that I I’m probably a bit, maybe I could have been a little faster if I had gone, um, you know, full, full on. Uh, but I was certainly full on in my mind. Like I was like, you know, completely dedicated. This is what I was going to do. Uh, never lost sight of that was up, you know, at five every morning, you know, answering emails, everything I could do, uh, to, to, to, to build that business. And this was 2014. It was a slower time. It wasn’t, there wasn’t as much, uh, business happening. Um, but you know, it was, I think it’s that, you know, showing up for yourself, the, the, you know, proving to yourself that you can do it.
[8:54] And that determination that can really, you know, make, make the business eventually work out. Uh, I do think a lot of people, it’s going to be hard to start as a second career, this, were you, were you in a commission, um, only, uh, thing when you started, or was this like kind of like a salaried with a bonus kind of a role? So when I started off, uh, you know, I worked for a company and I was salary plus commission. And, and that allowed me, you know, as I look back now, it was more like training wheels. It gave me the ability to really train and, you know, and self-educate, you know, that is the concept that when we play college, you know, there’s a level of like, Hey, I’m done. You know, I don’t need to study anymore.
[9:33] I’m, you know, all these books, I can throw them away, but really, I think college allows us to, you know, learn the ability to self-educate. And, you know, when we enter our profession, we have to continue to self-educate ourselves and, and personal development is so important. And so by the time, you know, probably within five years, I was straight commission. I had a confidence that I could do the job. So, you know, within that first five years of having a salary and having, you know, a little bit of a, a harness per se, a little bit of a parachute, you know, it allowed me to kind of cut that parachute off and go straight commission, which I’ve been, you know, over the last 20 years, because I’ve had a confidence that I can deliver.
[10:12] Yeah. That’s, that’s one thing that is difficult as a real estate agent to get into is, is some sort of position that allows you to have a steady income and, and then also, you know, sell on the side. So I, you know, I, I’ve, I talk about in my book that it’s an ideal thing would be to, to be like an assistant to another agent or something that’s, that’s really successful, helping them out as much as they can. Maybe you’ll get some referrals off that as well. But that, that certainly, I mean, that’s more or less the, the avenue I took, because I didn’t really jump into it full time until I saw like, you know, I had the, the business built that would sustain me. And also we were focused on paying off our student loans. Like we had, you know, a bunch of debt hanging overheads and we’re like, we don’t want to go through the, you know, have kids go through that whole process. And, and, you know, we wanted to get rid of that before we jumped into our careers fully like that. So, but yeah, I wish there was more opportunity like that in the agent space. Now, Dante, your philosophy is that homeownership is a transformation, not just a transaction.
[11:17] For a real estate agent who closes deals every day, but has not started to build their own portfolio. What is the first conversation you would have with them about using real estate to build their own long-term wealth? So I would say ultimately that the first conversation is going to be about what is your goal? You know, a lot of times I see real estate investors, I see real estate agents, they, they don’t really have necessarily a goal in mind. They, you know, they get excited about the concept of I’m a, I’m an investor, but it’s like, what is your strategy? You know, are you looking to fix and flip? Are you looking to cashflow? Are you looking at appreciation, managing the property? What, what are you trying to obtain? What are your, what are your goals? And then we can kind of, you know, reverse engineer that concept, you know? So I always think, let’s think about the end first and then work our way to what it’s going to take to get there because, you know, it’s different strategies out there. There’s no right or wrong. You know, I’ve seen people invest in properties just for the tax write-off, but I’ve also seen other people looking for the, you know, the positive
[12:20] cashflow per month and, and, and the rest goes on. So strategy is very important on what are you trying to do? Because I feel like a lot of times, and you can let me know what you see out there, but we have this concept of trying to keep up with the Joneses. And so we, we kind of try to follow or mimic maybe somebody in particular that you’ve been watching and seeing, but that might not be suitable for you and your dynamics and your situation. So you really have to look at yourself, kind of do a self audit and evaluate the situation and see what’s best for you. Yeah, no, that’s really, really true. And, you know, there’s different seasons. If you’re, if you’re just starting off being an agent, you obviously need to know that if you’re, if you’re jumping into being self-employed and it hasn’t been two years of income, then it’s going to be difficult to get a traditional mortgage. That’s something to note.
[13:10] But then also if you, if you do look at trying to reduce your taxable income, there’s also a balance there, right? Cause I mean, you have to be able to qualify for a mortgage. If you’re not reporting any income to the IRS, like it’s gonna be hard to get a mortgage, right? Well, it is on the traditional side, you know, being a regional mortgage broker that we are, we do have alternative income programs. Yeah. So you run Epic Mortgage across nine States with the relationship first, education first model. What does that actually look like in practice when you are working with investors specifically? And what are the biggest financial mistakes you see real estate investors make when they’re trying to scale?
[13:48] Yeah. I mean, basically just sticking to the game plan, you know, sometimes we’re our own worst enemy, you know, our brains, our mind, we constantly are changing our mind. And it’s like, well, Hey, we started on this game plan and you, and it is tough, you know, at times because things may have to adjust, you know, valuations of properties don’t always hit exactly where you think they are going to be. ARV today is not ARV six months from now or a year from now. So there are some nuances to the game. So you have to have some flexibility. Sometimes being stringent is not the best case in real estate. You have to be able to flexible and you may have, you do have to learn how to pivot. So, you know, really educating people on just the experience and the journey and just overall knowing that the end of the road is where we’re trying to get to, but it might be some bumps.
[14:38] It might be some, you know, some landmines that we’re going to have to dodge, you know, and we’re going to have to re revisit. And, you know, sometimes people like, I want to get this done this year. And it’s like, you know, let’s just get it done. If it takes, if we can get it done this year, great, but it might take us five. It might take us a decade because of certain situations, depending on everyone’s scenario. So, you know, just giving people more perspective. Yeah. I think what you were touching on the beginning often happens when somebody gets kind of excited, maybe listen to a podcast, come across a podcast about investing. And they, they think, you know, I’m going to do, you know, I’m going to do buy and hold rentals as my strategy. And then they listen to another podcast, like, no, no, no, I’m going to do Airbnbs and kind of flipping.
[15:21] The investment strategy. And I mean, it’s good to explore. It’s good to know. I think like, you know, at a certain point you do kind of have like maybe a tool belt and there’s different situations for, you know, if you come across a deal that might work in this, with like a midterm rental, or it might work as an Airbnb or something better than it would as a long-term rental. But I do think to your point, I think you really need to kind of like have that, that focus and actually take action, actually make steps towards your goal. Cause I think you can get stuck in that analysis paralysis, keep chasing the next, like, you know, popular idea and never actually doing anything. No, agreed. Yeah. I mean, and that sometimes is the action is just getting started. You get a lot of people that want to be real estate investors and they’re, they’re reading everything. They’re watching every podcast they can, but they never do anything. And it’s like, you know, the one thing that we have to, you know, that we have to realize is that’s time, you know, real estate is a time game and you got to start. So, you know, the quicker you start, the better you’re going to be.
[16:24] Best time to plant a tree was what? A hundred years ago, 20 years ago. Exactly. Best time is right now. And I think, you know, like that’s, that’s the thing. It’s like over, uh, what my portfolio looks like is, is just been because I’ve had real estate over time. Now I’ve gotten some good deals and I’ve done some fun things like burrs and, and flips and that kind of stuff, which has helped. Um, uh, but you know, ultimately, you know, I own property through the pandemic. Um, and that definitely with, with the printing of money, um, helps, uh, the values go up. And so I think, you know, while we’re on the other side of that, uh, I still believe that, you know, you’re going to, you’re going to see values go up over the longterm. So, uh, trying to get into, uh, some properties and, and I think now you do sometimes have to get a little creative because it’s harder to make, uh, the, the numbers work as, you know, uh, just a straight cashflow longterm rental.
[17:16] It can be a little bit tricky with the interest rates where they’re at and the purchase prices. Um, so, you know, most recently for us, we found a property that we really liked and, uh, we, we loved the location. We thought it was a cute property. We made it really charming. Um, definitely was not going to work as a longterm with, with what interest rates we were getting. Um, so we just, we’ve, we made it into a midterm and, and that’s been been working pretty well. Um, so sometimes you gotta look at a little creative. Yeah, that’s awesome. Flexibility and seller finance too. I know that doesn’t, uh, necessarily, you know, bode well for my company, but I mean, seller financing, uh, you know, a lot of investors, you’d be surprised just how much can be worked out. Um, you know, and, and sometimes we can offer, um, you know, we allow seller finance seconds, you know, so that can help reduce some of the down payments and stuff like that. So it is a mechanism that people, you know, you just have to be willing to get going and, you know, get that action. And then you’ll be surprised how we
[18:12] can make some deals happen that you didn’t think we’re, you know, able to do. Yeah. Yeah. And I think to your point, I think, you know, just having the knowledge of these things, um, too, like, so yeah, we’re talking out of both sides of our mouths a little bit, like, you know, don’t get into the analysis paralysis, but get educated so that you, uh, when you come across an opportunity where, where like that could be a reality, like knowing that that exists and being able to, to conflict, discuss what possible terms could be, what, what the win-win is for the, uh, the seller as well. You know, I’ve, uh, I’ve got, uh, a deal that did seller financing that, you know, it broke up the capital gains for the owner and it was a great thing for them. Um, and they’re, they’re talking about doing another one with me and they are potentially wanting to do a a hundred percent down, uh, or a hundred percent financed. Uh, but again, you have to be careful too, because that sounds amazing and sounds really good, but you need to also make sure that it’s not like, are you overpaying because of those terms? Um, does it make sense? Like, are you able to,
[19:11] to weather the storms if there’s going to be, uh, cause your, your cashflow is not going to be as good if you’re, if you’re going, you know, a hundred percent. Um, and, and if you have, you know, 15 properties that then, you know, five of them need HVACs in one year, like, is that going to be something you can, you can handle? Right. So like, maybe you don’t put the money down, but maybe you have it in reserves, uh, so that you can, whether, whether storms like that, when those kinds of things happen. Yeah, no, no, I think the best power you can have is saying no to a deal, but in order to say no to a deal, you have to know, is it a good deal? So, so the, the, there is the education that you have to have up front of just recognizing what are good deals? What are your principles? What are your rules? Are you the 1% rule? You know, are you cash on cash on hand? You know, what, what are you looking to do? So I think it comes down to strategy. So that’s kind of the education we do up front.
[20:03] Hey, these are different things that you can look at and monitor. Uh, a lot of investors do it a lot of different ways. There’s no right or wrong. I think that’s what confuses people too. Cause they all, well, what’s the best way? And it’s like, you know, what, whatever the best way is, yeah, no one, no one wants to be wrong anymore. You know, we’re, we’re in an age where no one wants to get it wrong. No one wants to make a mistake. And it’s like, it just doesn’t work like that. Like you have to kind of find what’s good for you. So, you know, there, there is no right or wrong. You get to choose what’s right for you, but as long as you have some principles and guidelines that you can stick to, I feel like there’s more opportunities out there than people, uh, actually can ever imagine. Yeah. Um, certainly a stepping point for people if they want to check it out, uh, if they go to our website, rei agent.com forward slash deal dash, uh, analyzer, um, you can find a little calculator that you can do some calculations. Uh, it’s important to, to factor in different things like, uh, vacancy repairs, CapEx, uh, property management, if you want it, uh, into the deal as
[21:05] well. Uh, not just, you know, principal interest, um, insurance costs and, and the rent amount to, to see if that property is going to cashflow. Um, and so definitely something to get yourself educated on and, and definitely use professionals like Dante, uh, people that have experience and understand, uh, what this world’s all about and can advise you in a way that’s not just trying to get the deal done. Um, but you know, so that you, they want to come back to you again, right? They want, you want clients to have that repeat business, that trust, because they know that you’ve got their long-term, uh, interest in mind, not just that, that paycheck. Yeah. I, I always say the best compliment, uh, you know, realtors say this, they say the best compliment is a referral, but to me, the best compliment is repeat business. If a, if a person does a deal with me and they knew it was good and they say, Hey, I want to do it again with you. I know I did a good job and, and that’s what makes me feel good. So, you know, the best compliment for me is repeat business. And, and that’s what we aim to do. I love it. Um, Dante, we’ve had some great golden nuggets already,
[22:07] but I’m curious what golden nuggets you brought for our listeners today. All right. Let’s, uh, I mean, we kind of tapped on it a little bit, but I just, you know, you can’t emphasize it more and more relationships be interest rates all the time. You know, you really have to build relationships and go deep. You want to go deep in your relationships. Um, it starts, you know, uh, you know, it starts in high school nowadays. I mean, these kids have, uh, social media platforms when they’re 12 and 13 years old and you can really, you know, develop relationships because you never know where those relationships will take you. And sometimes they see opportunities for you that you couldn’t even see, you know, I mean, it might be a coworker that’s actually, you know, working with someone that’s going to buy a house. And then now, you know, the coworker, uh, you know, is friends with you and, and, you know, all of a sudden you got a referral. So, you know, relationships are so important, you know, and they mean more than interest rates. So I, I really encourage people to get back to networking, you know, and networking can be so different now,
[23:03] right. We can do it over the internet, which is super cool, or we can do it in person, you know, but however you do it, we need to build relationships and go deep, you know, care about somebody, see how they’re doing, their family, their friends, you know, see what motivates them and, and always be on lookout really, you know, givers gain is, uh, is one of my tips, uh, real estate. And this is kind of a nugget that I think everyone knows, but you know, it doesn’t hurt to say, you know, real estate is more than just properties. You know, it is a wealth building machine. And even if it’s your first time home or it’s a, an investment property, we have to really assess how we can, you know, extract, you know, squeeze the juice out of the orange, you know, what are the possibilities and really look at ways to maximize each and every unit, uh, because it’s an asset and, and we have to build assets and we have to understand what good debt and bad debt is. And, you know, and I always say good debt is anything that I don’t have to pay, but someone else is paying for me. That’s good debt.
[24:00] Bad debt is anything I have to come out of my pocket. So, you know, how can we strategize and make sure that someone else is paying for it? And so I just really want people to look at, uh, the property. Hey, yeah, great. You got a property, but how can we maximize it? You know, what, what, what tool, because, you know, we all are going to need, you know, millions of dollars to retire one day. So, you know, we need to start planning on how do we actually get there? Cause that number sounds big, right? When we say, you know, we’re, we’re thinking seven figures, eight figures and like, Oh, that, you know, sometimes it almost shuts people down when you think of numbers that big. Cause it’s like, well, how the heck am I going to get there?
[24:35] But it’s easier said than done, but it takes time and you gotta, you gotta use the tools that we have to build it. And then my last nugget is just overall. And this kind of goes back to my sports career consistency, you know, consistency on a daily basis. You got to create good habits and do them on a daily basis. That’s going to create the opportunities. You know how they say, you know, luck is when the opportunity meets someone that’s prepared. And then, then they say you got lucky, but you were always prepared for that opportunity. So you have to be consistent in what you do on a day in day out basis, you know, and sometimes it stinks, you know, sometimes there’s so many distractions, you know, you got a FIFA on, you got soccer, you can watch soccer games, but you got to get your work done first. You know, you got to get your work done first and then, and then have the fun times because, you know, it’s, uh, do it today. So you don’t have to do it tomorrow. So those are my nuggets for you. I love it. So true. Uh, one of the, one of the things that I’ve thought about, um, or one of the ways of comprehending that, that good debt, uh,
[25:34] kind of analogy is, uh, if you think about locking in a 30 year fixed mortgage. So a lot of times people will see that interest rate and see how much money they’re paying in interest over the years. Um, and just really, you know, they, they, they, they make some sick to their stomach almost. Right. Uh, but you’re, you’re locking in, uh, today’s like dollar amount, if that makes sense for 30 years. And, and so like when I did analysis of my local market and looked at what it would have been if you, if you, if you, if you bought the median sales price, uh, in the year 2000, if you bought a property in the median sales price, you didn’t worry about any of the, like the tax write-offs. You didn’t worry about, um, the rent income you’re getting from it. You’re just assuming you’re breaking even until now. And that’s it. Um, now, you know, at the time, I think it was like $115, $115,000 for, for that median sales price. And now it’s, you know, 350. Um, and if you compare the down payment you’d need to have for that, um, that house at the time, and if you would just put that into the S and P 500 for the same amount of time, what the differences
[26:41] in the value would be, um, that we’re not quite done with a 30 year mortgage. Um, but the difference was, was over well over a hundred thousand dollars. I can’t remember exactly what it was off the top of my head. Um, but that’s just kind of not doing the best job of explaining it, but you, you, at the time that was a median sales price. It wasn’t like you’re getting a steal. Um, and that mortgage might’ve felt like a stretch to some people. Um, but now it would be laughable, right? Right. I always talk about, um, when people are squabbling over a few thousand dollars in the deal, if they, if they go back to like when their parents bought their house and they were probably fighting over $20, it was a big deal then, but it’s laughable now. And, and, and that’s kind of one of the powers of that good debt is that you’re locking in today’s, um, dollar and the dollar is going to devalue, um, likely. And, and, and so like, you know, in 30 years, uh, you’re going to take the advantage of that and you’re going to have, um, you know, that asset that’s worth way more, um, because you locked it in, in today’s
[27:42] dollar. Um, got to, got to take action. Yeah. A hundred percent. Um, so what about a favorite book or a fundamental book that you think everybody should read? I don’t know about fundamental, but my favorite book that I gets me going was, uh, energy on the bus by John Gordon. And, you know, it, it talks about, um, really more about team teamwork. And I, and I feel like everyone should have a financial team around them, people that they can rely on kind of like your board of directors. Um, because, you know, if you see, uh, you know, sometimes you just need someone’s opinion. And so if you have this kind of board of directors, but you got to let people know where this bus is headed. And so you got to have people with the right energy on that bus. You know, everyone’s got to have the same goals and understand what you’re trying to do and help you get there. And I think naturally we like to help people. And I, you know, I think it’s human nature. And if you can find that good circle for you, um, and they’re going to help you get to where you want to go. So energy on the bus by John Gordon, uh, you know, it’s a feel good book, uh, short, sweet, and it gets to
[28:42] the point of just making sure that you’re moving in the right direction. Awesome. Love it. That’s a new one. Um, now you, you, you have the, the podcast, uh, uh, which is epic spotlight, epic spotlight, the book, you wrote a book, the ultimate mortgage guide. Um, I imagine people can find that on Amazon. Yep. Yeah. Amazon is a place to be. Um, you know, it was really was a book, uh, you know, just keep it simple that I was getting questions in 2002 that I still was getting in 2023 when I wrote the book. And, and it just reminded me that, you know, our financial system doesn’t really, you know, our school system doesn’t really educate us on these things that matter the most, you know, and I think sometimes, um, they say that 50% of people will go with what the realtor tells them to, as far as a lender goes. And so that’s 50% of people that potentially may be going to somewhere that they didn’t realize there was other options. You know, there was alternative income programs. Oh, really? You can buy some with bank statements. Wait, I don’t have to prove my income. I thought my tax returns are important. Oh, I don’t need two years of tax returns. There’s a
[29:44] lot of stuff that people don’t know. And I just wanted to make them aware of just what’s out there. Oh, you mean I could do a fix and flip. I don’t have to come out of cash and I can get a loan. Yes, you can. So these are things that people don’t know about that. I wanted to make them present as saying, Hey, these are products that are out here and things are that you consider. And hopefully that’ll help people get going in real estate. That’s awesome. Uh, yeah. Thanks for, for doing that for people and, uh, social media platforms. Where are you active? Where can people find you otherwise? I think it’s five platforms, Tik TOK, Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, and I’m probably missing one, but yeah, definitely I’m on those major platforms. Yeah. Look me up Dante Royster or Epic Mortgage.
[30:25] You’ll probably find me there. Awesome. Well, thanks so much for being on the show. It’s been a really fun conversation. Uh, I know that our audience is gonna get a ton out of it, uh, for anybody listening now, um, please, uh, like subscribe, uh, follow us on any platform, YouTube, uh, you know, any podcast platform you’re on. I really appreciate it. Leave us a review, help the podcast grow even more. Check out our website, reiagent.com for some free tools, uh, and, uh, also blog posts of all the different episodes we’ve had. We’re getting close to 200. So check that out. Uh, again, Dante, thanks so much for being on the show. Hey, thanks for having me. Thanks for listening to the REI agent.
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